Meaning Of True Friendship

In this world, you meet many people. Some stay and some go. You're not sure which ones will stay and which ones won't....

Its confusing when you love someone and they do things to hurt you. You wonder what you did wrong.

True friends shouldn't end like that.....

Its a wonder how someone can make you feel very happy and suddenly drops a bomb without notice and leaves you forever....

Its funny how you feel like you can be Best Friends Forever and suddenly she's a stranger.....

I have to admit its true when they say " Don't love someone too much. Your heart will feel so much pain when they decide to hurt you."

Its true. Very true. 

Try and recall a moment when someone you truly loved, truly trusted and she or he did something unexpected. They did something to purposely offend you or maybe it was not on purpose but you're heart felt the stabbing pain. Like 101 knives stabbed directly at the centre of your heart. (ok maybe its not that bad)

Sometimes its hard to know which are true friends and which are not. Its hard to tell which will leave you and which will stay. Its hard to say which are loyal and which are sincere. People nowadays are so good at pretending. 

To be happy in a friendship, sometimes you have to think of what you have to do instead of finding the fault in others. Yes, its very very true and obvious that its your friend's fault. BUT, remember that anything that happens to you is a result of your action towards others, my dear. To be happy, you can just forgive and forget. Even if you can't forgive, just forget about it if your friend truly apologizes. Don't expect too much or you'll be disappointed. As a friend, of course you expect your friend to remember important dates, to be there when you need someone to talk to, etc. Trust me, not everyone is as good as Mother Teresa and of course nobody can be better than Prophet Mohammad saw. 

People make mistakes and if you think that your friendship is worth saving, just forgive them. People with many friends are people who don't expect too much. Instead, they are the ones who are willingly kind and thoughtful of others. Its not hard to ask a simple " How are you?" In fact, you have no idea the impact it gives to someone when you do something that touches their heart. People like me will remember it forever even if its something small. Something you have to know about sensitive people is that they NOT only remember bad things but the good ones as well. 

If you're curious about something bad they did, turn it into a joke. Don't be soo serious about small things. You don't own your friend. They have their own life too. As a matter of fact, a bestfriend is like " being in a romance-free relationship with the same gender."

Lastly, I just want to say appreciate the people around you before they're gone. You don't stay with everyone forever so make the best of it while you're together. Fights and arguments go nowhere. They just apply heat to your heart ;) If you think a person does nothing but hurt you, let it be. They'll realise it sooner or later and if they don't it doesn't matter. Try and think of the good things they've done to you. Don't let one bad thing outweigh the SOO many good memories. 

Favourite quote : The best person is one who benefits others.

Take care my dear friends