Be Rational, Not Emotional

Dear all, can you remember a time that you found out something the wrong way? As in you knew about something unpleasant about someone close to you by coincidence and not the person telling you her/himself? That is NOT a good feeling is it, especially if what you found out has something to do with you and you had no idea all along. Sometimes things you "get" to know are unpleasant and they make you mad, sad, disappointed, angry, everything! But what I'm trying to point out here is that all this happens because we are being too emotional and not rational. What if it is wrong? What if the person who you thought did something wrong to you has a reason for doing so or maybe it is not what you think?? That's why you should talk to the person him/herself before making any assumptions. Something may have happened and you may have thought otherwise. You start having bad thoughts about the person and you feel like they have betrayed you and not appreciate you for who you are. I admit people have feelings and its normal to feel so pissed at first when you find out something or when things unexpected happens. However, don't let this feeling last long and get an explanation from the person to straighten things up. Sometimes what you got to know can be right and then its your choice to get mad or anything (haha) but it can be wrong too and you don't wanna regret things later on right? My advice is to get an explanation AS SOON AS POSSIBLE ( maybe you feel like you want an explanation this instance but find a suitable time when both of you are free and talk it over). Its no rush but at the same time do it quick before someone talks you into believing something else. . As for my case, I haven't had a chance to talk to this person since 6 days ago. Of course its kinda long but I'll wait patiently and hear the explanation ( if there is one haha) Ok Chillzz!! I wanna stop talkign about this now. Stay up for the next post:) Bye